Thursday, October 20, 2011

Traumatic with a great ending



I know what you are thinking.  How can I call a picture of such a beautiful girl traumatic?  Well, traumatic is the story of how we got here.  Today, Madelyn is off from school (along with the rest of Minnesota) and I decided to trim and layer her hair a little this morning.  Madelyn has been growing her hair out for a LONG time and it seems to never get any longer and lately it has been looking really fizzy and unhealthy, so I wanted to try and get the ends trimmed off.  Well, I have trimmed her hair before and I've done something like layering to Grey's hair before BUT.... it didn't go well this morning.  I got carried away and made a big mess of it and it was AWFUL!!!!  I was crying and apologizing profusely while Madelyn was at first shell-shocked and then bawling too.  I, then, called a friend that styles hair and when when I explained what was wrong and asked if she could fix it, she rescued us!  I took Madelyn and Greyson to her house, got a reassuring hug, and then stayed with her kids while she took Madelyn to her salon and fixed the mess that I made, painted her nails, made her smile, and loved on her too.  Thank you, God, for friends that will drop everything to help!  When they got back to the house, I loved the new look and was loving the twinkle I saw in her eyes too.  She is such a beautiful girl, but she showed me just how much when later when she commented, "Mom, I know that you didn't do it intentionally. It will be okay. I even like it."  She is my beauty inside and out....  I love you, Madelyn. 

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

sweet girl!

lorri

Tracy P. said...

Aw! She looks darling. How wonderful that you had just the right friend to come to the rescue!

Anonymous said...

Wow!! What a beautiful hair style on a beautiful girl. Not to be a walking cliche' but "all's well that ends well" or "all things work together for good---", etc., etc. This may be the best hair style you've ever had. It really did turn out grand and I'm glad, Madelyn, that you were able to call up some good coping skills. An important trait that will serve you well all through you life. Oh, another cliche' (though not a Bible verse :-)---"When life hands you lemons, make lemonade!!" Love you all, Aunt Lou

Stephanie said...

She looks FABULOUS!! I love the cut so much! I hate that it was a rough experience at first, but am sooo proud of Madelyn for handling it with such grace. Her parents must be doing something right :) Miss you all!